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Success and Happiness, Understood!

Success and Happiness, Understood!

One of the most significant challenges to all my arguments about happiness has been how happiness causes one to become too relaxed and mellow to have determination, ambition, or the competitive edge to succeed. The thing is that happiness and success may be correlated...

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6 Steps to Quit a Job you Hate

6 Steps to Quit a Job you Hate

Job satisfaction is hard to come by these days. Depending on which survey you look at, the proportion of employees who hate their jobs or are just disengaged ranges between 66% to 90%. Given that we spend a substantial amount of time at work, this would make for a...

Compelling Reasons in Favor of Small Goals

Compelling Reasons in Favor of Small Goals

I remember when I first thought about goals. It was the time I was getting out of university and stepping into the corporate world. I was going to have a regular monthly salary and I would be financially independent. There was a lot of talk about dreams and...

Bridging Differences – Diversity and the Dog

Bridging Differences – Diversity and the Dog

I am taking a course from the University of California, Berkeley, called Bridging Differences. For this week, when I could not think of a topic to write about, I decided to write about what I am learning there. It seems like a great way to recap what I am learning and...

Knowing your True Desire – How to Understand What YOU Want

Knowing your True Desire – How to Understand What YOU Want

Doing what you want and truly desire is really what empowerment is all about. The bigger challenge, however, is not doing what you want to do but knowing what you truly want. This is not to say that doing what you want is easy. But it is to emphasize that when you...

Develop a Growth Mindset – Change the Way you Look at Setbacks

Develop a Growth Mindset – Change the Way you Look at Setbacks

Have you ever heard yourself say to yourself or others, ‘That is just not me’, ‘I am not good with numbers’, I do not have creativity’, ‘There is no way I can become an athletic person’? Does this sound like a growth mindset to you? Ever since the concept of genes was...

Winning Without Planning

Winning Without Planning

Yes, you read the title right. We are going to explore the value of NOT planning. In the over-achieving world that we live in, you are considered a loser if you do not have a plan. It’s all about goals and then creating plans to meet these goals. Corporate trainers...

Using Boredom to Rekindle your Life

Using Boredom to Rekindle your Life

‘Bored to death’, ‘bored stiff’, ‘bored out of my wits’, are some of the phrases that come to mind when one starts to think about boredom. Just thinking of the word brings about a certain ennui and feeling of fatigue. Interestingly, we have become increasingly more...

Recover from the Pain of Being Left or Dumped

Recover from the Pain of Being Left or Dumped

Many years ago, someone I know came to speak to me about how she could make sure that her (then) husband did not leave her. I remember asking her this one question, ‘Why would you want to be with someone who clearly does not want to be with you?’ In our discussion,...